It is interesting the human mind the things that we want to do and what have to do and what we are actually getting done.  For example this blog was for me to share what I am learning but the inconsistency of the updates are far and few between.  BUT…. that is where another day is a gift for us to make another start.  Our diets, workouts, learning or a blog…

So the plan is to add updates here as I am updating my journal that I complete with therapy.  Yup no matter how invincible we think we might be some times to be the best we can be we need help.  I have rarely hesitated on a professional level to say “I am not sure…” or “I don’t know off the top of my head…”, but until a few weeks ago did I start doing that on a personal level.  I feel like it is going well but it is work and consistency. Something that I have said to my manager many times but haven’t put in place on a personal level is…

 

 

“I can only do what I can do, and when I am becoming overwhelmed, I will let you know.”

 

 

Additionally to that and with working with my therapist, I have added on to this to verbalize it as I was practicing.  “There are things that you can change, things you want to change that you cannot change directly.”  It differs in personal and professional lives and I have been trying to live my personal life like my professional life.  This is has caused un-needed challenges.

All we can do is what we can do…